The Bond of Love Is Not Desire, but Need

Music: Partita in C Minor.
By J.S. Bach. Sequenced by David Grossman.

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The bond of love is not desire, but need.
Desire fades; need with wisdom grows:
The need to be needed, and the need to need.

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But why the need to need when one is freed
By needing less of that which comes and goes?
The bond of love is not desire, but need.

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And why need to be needed? Why should one cede
What one might well enjoy for what one owes?
The need to be needed, and the need to need

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Are longings of the sower for the seed,
And the seed for the sower, who whistles as he sows.
The bond of love is not desire, but need.

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Love is longing, by dint of death decreed,
The beauty and the terror life bestows,
The need to be needed, and the need to need

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Embedded in one's being, as indeed,
Being needs Creation, which it once chose.
The bond of love is not desire, but need:
The need to be needed, and the need to need.

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